Thursday, January 24, 2013

What to Do When Love Spell "Backfires"?

A lot of people who cast love spells do so with an inherent fear that it might 'backfire.' They expect this. They buy their spell and want to know what will happen if the spell backfires.

Most people who hold this belief seem to consider it something akin to the 'karma' rule of magic, wherein it's perceived that magic or certain types of magic are bad or evil and that they will cause bad or evil to come back on the person who uses them.

Not all magical systems believe in this, and not all practitioners of magic believe in this.

Most reported cases of backfiring I hear, sound to my nonbelieving senses to be either unrelated accidents or misfortunes that just happened to occur shortly after a spellcast and are attributed to 'backfiring' (these are things like broken appliances, failing job interviews, minor accidents or injuries -- stuff that has nothing to do with love or the love spell) OR, the spell producing unintended negative consequences.

In this latter case, the result is often caused by a failure to understand the targeted person's mental state or life condition. The fact is that a spell does not make a person act contrary to common sense or their own personality, and if the spell is leading them to do something totally unreasonable or out of character,  they might rebel -- or enact it -- in unexpected ways.

Example: One man, "Michael", on whom love spells were being put, had seemed to be very interested in the lady "Georgia", who was pursuing him magically -- at least, right until the spells which were hoped to push him to declare his affections were actually cast. Afterwards, instead of behaving more passionately toward Georgia, he instead became very cold towards the lady. Some readings were done to investigate, and revealed the cause: the love spells were causing Michael to be too attracted to her, to the point where he was afraid to interact with her because he feared not being able to control himself; and then this pent-up emotion was making him moody whenever Georgia did put herself into contact with him.

Another Example: "Calinda" was after a man who barely knew her from a hole in the wall. Calinda put several heavy love spells on him to inspire him to return her affections. Unfortunately, this fellow -- who happened to be a Virgo, a notoriously prudish sign -- was mostly just becoming annoyed by these strange emotions with no reasonable basis that he could see. He was oddly interested, and always civil, to Calinda, but did not ever succumb to an interest for romance with her. Eventually her obvious pursuit of him became an annoyance and he ceased to communicate with her.

Another: "Stephen" loved "Melissa" and did a spell to make her love and desire him. Melissa hated Stephen and found him unpleasant every moment they spent together, even though when he was away she seemed to long for him in a curious way. This unnatural behavior made her suspect that he was using some form of love magic on her, and after a thorough search of her home, she discovered the charm that Stephen had hidden in her drawer. She destroyed the magic and never saw Stephen again.

This actually shows another warning with magic, one that folks don't think about -- most people fear this imagined "backfiring" and yet, almost everyone believes that they want The Most Powerful Spell Ever to win love. Too powerful a spell, as we have seen, can negatively overwhelm a person and maybe even alert them that their emotions are unnatural. 


Frankly it will depend on the exact situation. A reading to determine the next step is advised. There are generally two courses of possibility:

  • Stop and/or undo the existing spells that were cast.
  • Continue working spells but add another spell to counteract the negative effects.

Whatever the case, DO NOT PANIC. Stay calm -- if possible, pretend like you don't even know there's a problem, until such time as you have your solution devised. Persistence is often key when it comes to love magic, and patience is an aspect of that.


  1. I think my problem may be the same as Georgia's. I think I had too many love spells going at one time and now he is exactly as Michael. He has become cold. I know his feelings aren't totally gone, but he has gotten cold to my communication and he is drifting away.

  2. I cast a forgiveness spell on my ex thinking we could sort everything out. Within a dew days he started to treat me horribly and since i cast the spell I've dreamt of him every night, usually about us sorting it out. I see him for probably the next, and most likely the last time on the 26th. Anyone got any advice?

  3. "A few days" might not have been long enough for the spell to even have started working. Everyone seems to imagine Hollywood style magic where things manifest immediately, but that it usually not the case.

    The dreams are actually a good omen that the spell is working. I would guess, though, that the meeting on the 26th would result in forgiveness but not necessarily a revival of the relationship.

  4. My case is different. I casted a love spell on my ex, it was to bring him back to me and make love only me and no one else. Well, the thing is he's not mad at me or anything like that, but there's no sign of him coming back or being in love with me.. The real problem is I can't get over him. I think about him all the time, I don't want to give anyone a chance to be with me. Its been 2 and a half yrs since we broke up and when I did the spell.. like my heart hurts cuz we're not together any more. What can I do to stop this feeling? What I wished on him came back on me! Its like I can't move on!

    1. Well, that's not backfiring; that's a spell that just plain didn't work. You had wanted him back already or you'd have not done the spell at all, right? So that you would still want him afterwards was nothing new. Multi-year devotions, even after breakups, happen to people that don't use magic as well.
      As to what you can do to stop the feeling, try these:

      Since it sounds like this has gone on a while it might take time to be fully separated and you may need to use something like repeated black walnut baths to get the best effect.

      I hope this will help. God bless!

  5. I did a love spell as well but instead it seems to have the opposite effect. All we do is fight and can't even be in the same room. Not sure what went wrong and in fact I get angry just talking to him. It seems I am the one who has these love/ hate feelings and he seems completely indifferent/ not caring.

    1. Different people feel love in different ways, perhaps this is an aspect of your version or his? I can only speculate on your motives for casting the love spell. It sounds as if you were already together and he is still with you, so I don't think I'd say it was a total failure based on that information.

  6. help me back my lover i do every things back my lover I do any spells

  7. I did live spell on my ex and he came back to me within a week but few months later he started being very rude to me and he left me. I couldnt know what was happening. He made a new gf and it hurting me so i went to astrologer to searate them but it backfired me. I know loved me but all his love is gone. He is in strong bond with that girl. Instead of getting separate they are getting even closer. Please someone give me the solution.

  8. Hi Manisha,

    You would need to do a break up working first to finish his new relationship, then a clearing spell to remove any negative energies that are still floating saround between you.
    Finally you would cast a lover back conjure.
    Hope this is helpful,
    Blessings to you.

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  10. I've been a victim of a love spell. One that Ive been trying to figure out for over 9 years now. No I haven't tried to seek help. When I set my mind to do it something always comes up. Which Ive heard that a change in my life happened because of this person once before. I believe it kind of shocked me when it was first brought to my attention. So in so many ways im afraid to get the full story and may react to it. They are Haitian so i know that they are grounded in things of that nature. Don't understand why would someone cast a love spell for you to have desires for them but them they start to act if they hate you. Starting treating you like crap when you were force to love them. Its so confusing.


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